Open Heart Surgery

Open Heart Surgery: An Optimist’s Guide To Making Love Happen (Again)
with Jane Talbot

•    Are you fed up of feeling lonely?
•    Do you believe that love will never happen for you again?
•    Does the fear of rejection (or being hurt ) stop you from looking for love?
•    Are you fed up of meeting the “wrong” people?
•    Do you believe that you aren’t attractive enough to find a new partner?
•    Are you less than confident about heading back into the world of dating and relationships?
•    Do find it difficult to recognise when people are attracted to you (and when they are not?)
•    Are you having trouble letting go of baggage from your last relationship (and feel that it is getting in the way of your ability to find a new relationship?)
•    Do you look in the mirror and say things about your body that not even your worst enemy would say to you?

If you’re single and you answered “yes” to any of these questions, it probably means that you are ready for Open Heart Surgery : a heart-warming women-only experience that will help you to:

•    Start to feel the way you’d like to feel right now (whether you find love or not).
•    Let go of beliefs and attitudes that are preventing you from finding love and create new, supportive beliefs and attitudes that will help to make love happen in your life again.
•    Let go of the fear of rejection and reintroduce confidence, freedom of spirit and playfulness into your life.
•    Feel good about yourself, feel deserving and feel connected to the spirit of the “ real you” : the “you” that you want to be.
•    Set boundaries in a relationship (how to determine what is acceptable for you and what is not acceptable).
•    Learn what you are unconsciously attracting in the sphere of love and relationships – and make sure that you are attracting the kind of relationship that you really want.
•    Release unresolved emotions from past relationships so that you enter new relationships with a “clean emotional slate”.
•    Learn how to relax and be yourself in a dating situation.
•    Create rapport with others by : learning to pay attention to both conscious and unconscious signals, learning about body language and learning use language skilfully.
•    Learn to read between the lines on on-line profiles.
•    Learn to recognise when people find you attractive and when they don’t.
•    Learn when (and how) to stop “flogging a dead horse” and move on (and what sometimes happens when you really let go of a relationship).
•    Look in the mirror and like what you see (actually, you might actually start to fancy yourself!)